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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD is dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. I know it is partially developmentally appropriate but she gets mad at me all the time, I do nothing right, she is completely disrespectful in private and public. I know from therapy I should validate her feelings and ignore the rest but I’m so freaking mad. It is unacceptable to treat me like this and expect me to be fine the next minute. She tells me at least once a week how awful I am and how much she hates me. I’m not perfect, but I’m loving, we have a great relationship until she gets mad over something. Any advice? I’m thinking that a logical consequence is that I’m not getting her things, she asks for Starbucks, new clothes, etc. I will say “ a logical consequence for how you have been treating me is that I’m not going to get you anything that is not a need at this time.” I’m SURE this will fire her up again into another tirade where she rips me apart. Any other thoughts? Ideas?[/quote]

You don’t have to validate all of her feelings. Not all feelings are valid. [/quote]

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