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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The bigger concern is if your kid is actually not legitimately a D1-caliber athlete.

That places tons of stress on the kid thinking they aren't good enough.

Hopefully, there is good reason to believe that your kid is D1 material...either because they play on a top-tier club team that sends lots of kids D1 or a coach you know to be knowledgeable and honest has told you so.[/quote]

That isn’t really a “big concern”.

Every athlete knows something can happen to make the D1 offer not happen.

It’s also why companies like to hire athletes, they handle stress well, disappointment, getting over hard times like injury, etc.[/quote]

I don't know what you are talking about.  There are tons of parents of athletes who have zero chance at a D1 offer...yet they talk as though somehow, some way it can happen because they read about some random kid (with zero insight or knowledge on that kid) that in some slight way resembles their kid and they received a D1 offer.  I don't try to spend much time with those families because it's sad and you can see the disfunction.

That's a far cry from something can happen (i.e., an injury?) to make the D1 offer not happen...like a kid we know that was on the cusp of a Power 4 baseball offer but now needs Tommy John surgery.

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Every non athletic family thinks all the athletic stuff is “dysfunction”.

Of course the kid knows they might not get recruited.[/quote]

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