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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she invite you to talk about her weight loss and "really acknowledge and praise her?"  I have lost a significant amount of weight and I have a similar friend (who also considers herself healthy and thin - and almost talks about food in a disordered way all the time).

She always, always brings up my weight when I see her - without any prompt from me.  I find it irritating and annoying and rude, and just uncomfortable.

It's like she is obsessed with how I look, and honestly, it comes across as she clearly thought I was horrifically out of shape before I lost the weight and she has no idea how boundary crossing her comments are now.

If you are doing this to your friend, I am guessing this is why she is not speaking to you anymore.  Weight loss is personal, and unless you are invited to speak about someone else's weight loss by that person -- even if it's a close friend -- you are being rude if you are the one to always bring it up.[/quote]

I only do it after she posts about her physical activity and everyone else is complimenting her. SHe also shared how frustrated she is because people assume she did ozempic vs hard work[/quote]

Then you should ask her as the PP said.  Seems like she doesn't like something you did.  [/quote]

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