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[quote=Anonymous]Does she invite you to talk about her weight loss and "really acknowledge and praise her?" I have lost a significant amount of weight and I have a similar friend (who also considers herself healthy and thin - and almost talks about food in a disordered way all the time). She always, always brings up my weight when I see her - without any prompt from me. I find it irritating and annoying and rude, and just uncomfortable. It's like she is obsessed with how I look, and honestly, it comes across as she clearly thought I was horrifically out of shape before I lost the weight and she has no idea how boundary crossing her comments are now. If you are doing this to your friend, I am guessing this is why she is not speaking to you anymore. Weight loss is personal, and unless you are invited to speak about someone else's weight loss by that person -- even if it's a close friend -- you are being rude if you are the one to always bring it up.[/quote]
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