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[quote=Anonymous]Going to get a lot of flack for this but I can’t say this anywhere else. I’ve subconsciously been extra nice to in laws over the last decade because they are very wealthy. Never did this consciously, but I’ve come to realize how many times I’ve allowed them to be prioritized over my family for holidays, vacations, even the hotel room allocations for our wedding. Didn’t do this because they gave us money (they never did) but because they would always give in other ways (extravagant gifts, meals) which made us feel beholden to them, even if they never said they expected anything and we never asked for any of this. Recently we’ve had a windfall which puts us almost on par with them. We really don’t need anything they can give us anymore. It’s an AMAZING feeling. We are going where we want for the holidays and don’t feel the need to be nice about everything. It is true what they say, there are always strings and having your own money is power[/quote]
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