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[quote=Anonymous]OPl the even bigger red flag here is that you've been dating a while, you spend 3-4 nights together every week and -- yet you still can't just say direclty to her, "Hey, there's been what I perceive as a big change in our relationship and it's the communication on Fridays; let's talk about that."

If you're together as much as you say you are, and in a committed relationship (and daily communication plus sex/being together most nights in a week IS just that, a committed relationship) -- what is holding you back from just saying you are puzzled and feel left out of the loop and then asking her what's going on? Why are you afraid of sound like (your word) a "jerk" and you're crowdsourcing this? Aside from the Friday silence, there's a larger problem looming: You can't just talk directly to the person with whom you're in a relationship. Why not? It's relationship 101; if you can't simply bring it up and ask, directly and without accusations, you and she have another kind of communication problem. Why fear bringing it up, OP?

Of course the DCUM hive mind leapt to "she's cheating" and got nasty with details. Ignore those trolling children. Be an adult and simply say, you miss being in touch and want to know what's changed. Listen to her answer and don't leap to any conclusions. I do think she shoould have told you what's up, not because she HAS to, but because she should want to, if you two are in love and share your daily lives and news regularly. So why isn't she sharing about this? [/quote]

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