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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse had a paid sabbatical. He worked a ton on a personal project which sounded iffy to me but actually much later led to a new job. He traveled to see his brother. He played video games. I thought I might feel resentful of his free time (as it seems you feel you might) but TBH I just continued my routine and because I was working during the day wasn’t too aware of what he was up to. It’s a sabbatical to refresh him for continued productivity at work, not a house renovation/housework leave. I mean he should contribute all the time but if he’s not contributing enough now I don’t think the pattern will change. I don’t want to be pollyannaish because he sounds annoying but resentment is a hard way to live.[/quote]
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