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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you really need to stop engaging on some of these topics with your parents. I just read your beach thread, and there is NO scenario where you should have been in dialogue at all with your mom about where to stay. The only thing you should she said (if you wanted them to come) was something like, “We are going to the beach this summer on these dates. We’ve booked a house with an extra bedroom so we’d love for you to join us for part of it.” If they complain, just say “Sorry you feel this way. We will miss you and can try another time.” On your more recent issue, can you give us an example? You and your wife are grown adults. What in the world are you engaging with your parents about that they “don’t agree” with you about. You don’t need their permission or blessing anymore on your decisions. Just decide and do it. [/quote]
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