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[quote=Anonymous]I married someone close in age to me but I actually think this age gap works really well for marriage assuming the guy is mature and actually wants to get married and have kids.

If he doesn't want those things and gets dragged into it then it won't work but that would also be true with a younger woman. A man who doesn't know his own mind and is easily swayed by whomever he's dating is going to have a hard time no matter what.

If he's an attorney at a big firm then dating older women likely allows him to date women more established in their careers and who are more "peers" financially. That can make relationships easier and actually make it less likely anyone rushes into anything. The younger women he works with are probably not dating much -- they are going to be more career focused right now. And women outside his field might make a lot less and that creates a lot of inequities that might not be great for setting up a good dynamic in marriage unless he actually wants a very "traditional" dynamic where he's the breadwinner. A lot of men don't want that which makes a woman who earns more and is further along financially appealing.[/quote]

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