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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are no lawyers involved yet for a variety of reasons the primary of which are financial and my fear of his craziness. The sleep overs are with close family/friends who live farther out so it isn't the people per se but the principle that he can't bond with his kids/handle them on his own. Sorry should have made thatmore clear, but maybe pp is right in that they don't necessarily want to do that every weekend.[/quote]

PP here. We cross-posted. Please call the Women's Center and ask for some free advice. If you're really dealing with a NPD, you're going to need all the advice you can get!

Also, have you checked out SurvivingInfidelity.com? You can get great anonymous advice there on the Separation and Divorce thread.

Lastly, no judge is going to think that the sleepovers are a good idea. Your children need to be in a stable, safe, predictable place every weekend. This current set-up is not healthy for them. You probably need a break from the kids, though, one night a week. This is all more reason to reach out for help from the professionals. They will not be shocked or judgmental - they've seen this all before.

Good luck to you and your kids.
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