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[quote=Anonymous]Ok, so I remember this happening to my cousin's child a couple decades ago! Her husband is a GI doctor, so the pediatrician told him he should just do it. He thought that was a bad idea for the reason you cite. That a doctor or at least the mom should do it, not the dad. But he did it anyway against his instinct and regretted it. Felt she was acting differently towards him for weeks after. They have a good relationship now, tho, doesn't seem to be lasting harm. So yeah, I think you are right to feel violated. BUT you should know that this was common, at least back then, that pediatricians recommend parents do this to their children! I don't know if it still is. But I dont think you should hold this against your mom - she as doing what the doctor told her to do.[/quote]
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