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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the pp who suggested the crush. There’s a huge difference between being “secretly gay” and having a crush on someone of the same gender. It doesn’t mean you want to divorce your spouse and start a new rainbow colored life. It’s a spark, an attraction that can be sexual or can be platonic, but is more than a typical friendship. [/quote] I'm the PP you're responding to. I concede that a crush can be something different in the early stages of a friendship than secretly gay. But this is 12 years of knowing her. There is more of a connection than a crush at this point. I think I could have had a friendship that would fall in your "crush" category. The friend was new and different and a lot of things that I would love to be. But after a while, there was no way I could be like her and all her "a lot-ness" became exhausting for me, and my not trying to be a lot was boring for her. We never found a plane where we could meet and both be at ease. [/quote]
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