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[quote=Anonymous]Do not pay for it, let the system play out. You are going to have astronomical fees for your own care in old age. Also, one medical emergency and ongoing issue of your own, with your husband or kids can make financial situation much different. Let her get the care she can afford. Your visits help ensure she gets decent care. You figure out what you can handle and you can alter based on how she treats you. If she is nasty, visit less. If she is decent find the amount you can visit that you feel good about taking the high road, and not resentful.[/quote]
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