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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I briefly dated someone who behaved this way. He’d text All. The, Time. Then disappear for a week. Then say he wanted to get together. Then he was too busy. Then make plans for
Monday, flake, and say “Oops thought we said Wednesday!!!” Then when Wednesday came he said “Never enough time with you!!!” It was the final straw of course. Never understood what was in it for him to act like that. [/quote]

I spent THREE YEARS with someone like this - we'd started off so explosively attracted to each other, spending every second together. And then once a few months went by it was him pushing away in incredibly hurtful ways; then he'd pull me back once I'd started actually moving on; rinse and repeat. I was in my 20s and just didn't really know any better, even growing up in a home where my parents have a stable and good marriage. Oh it just about destroyed me. Even 25 years later, I still do miss the physical attraction - but am so grateful to be free of the rest of it.

I didn't have a name for this until this thread. 
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