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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother did it a TON with me and it's quite the mindf**k. Why? Because she had some Big Issues. I'll give you one example: on one hand she'd tell me how having me around raised her blood pressure and she found me so difficult, etc. On the other hand she'd tell me how I wouldn't be capable on my own, I didn't know how to cook well, I would need to get a second job, I wouldn't be able to get a job in my field, etc. So leave, but you won't be able to successful on your own.[/quote] Sorry that sucks and does sound like Big Issues. My MIL is like that. It makes it easier to ignore when it’s not your own mother. My mother doesn’t even bother with the pull. Her view is the kids must come to her. She makes no effort yet my brothers all fawn over her. I’ve done quite well for myself despite this, and I bet you have too![/quote]
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