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[quote=Anonymous]This is a spin-off from the WTF just happened thread, where the OP asked her guy during their romantic weekend whether he wanted to officially be her boyfriend and he said he’d think about it. Not surprisingly, drama ensued, with OP going quiet then saying nothing’s wrong, guy cancelling the trip early, then reaching out to OP to apologize, then OP apologizing to him, yada yada. A poster said this is an example of push-pull dynamic and to get out because it will only get worse. So here are my questions: I’ve heard the term push-pull as being a red flag, but want to understand why people do it. Is it an intentional manipulation (if so, for what purpose) or an unconscious reaction to something (if so, what)? Why would this guy be doing it in the OP’s case?[/quote]
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