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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I went through this recently, and while we do have two incomes and a mortgage, our primary concern was taking care of our DD if we both died at the same time (highly unlikely, of course, but better to be safe than sorry). We put it off for awhile because of laziness and the cost, but before a big trip we were going on, we finally did it. We hired a lawyer and it cost about $800 (not cheap, but well worth the piece of mind). He talked us through all the points that the lawyer in this thread discusses, plus we did things like a living will, power of attorney and who would make medical decisions on our behalf, if for ex., one of us was in a coma. We purposely chose guardians that are local (but we have local family; if we ever move, we would change them). Our attorney also covered things like if we both died, how college would be paid for and how any other money would be distributed to our child (trust me, it isn't that much) -- I think we have money being disbursed to her at 21 and 25. I'm a newspaper reporter so I can attest that these documents are public, but I don't know too many people who are trolling them looking for people to take advantage of (then again, I wouldn't put it past anyone these days). I think the point is, YOU want to protect and make these decisions for your child, not anyone else and certainly not the courts. Please talk to a lawyer, at least, to see what you realistically might want and need. [/quote]
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