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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would only agree to lower child support if he gave up time. [b] It will benefit your kids because they won't have to go back and forth as much.[/b]  The disruption in their lives is not worth the extra money, and it's not like he won't be in their lives, [b]just not an exhausting (for the kids) back and forth[/b]. [b] They will do better in school, sports, etc[/b].[/quote]

these opinions may be true for some kids and families but it is not a fact of how it will be .

My child does very well in school, is well adjusted,participates in multiple activities, and has been unaffected by the back and forth. If anything i things hes better off for it. since both parents get breaks neither gets burnt out.

its not exhausting he has his own space at both homes, his own toys, bed, clothes, etc.  I dont see why its harder to go one place then another.

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I see your point, but I thought the context here was a very negative/high conflict (did she write there were mental instability issues or am I thinking of another post) ex-spouse.  In a case where people get along well that's fine, but for high conflict and where one is plainly scheming to "get more overnights" in order to reduce child support - it might be best for the children to know that they have a home, with a stay at home mom, who goes over the homework, and the like.  Imagine trying to coordinate school projects with someone who is an a--?[/quote]

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