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[quote=Anonymous]I’m in a very serious relationship with a man who has two children (6 and 9) and I have a child (5). We’ve discussed having one more child, or as he says “our” child. I would like to have another, but the more I parent alongside him, and the more he says things like “our” and “your” and “my”, and things like “it’ll be nice to have our child here 24/7”, the more I am questioning having a fourth child. I love his children, but not the same as I love my child. I’m sure I would love “our” child differently, too. I wonder if both of our feelings about each other’s children would change, too, if we had a child together. So here I am. Share the good, bad, and ugly. [/quote]
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