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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think having parents in decline is ever easy. But here are aspects of it that are easier if you are an only child: - There are fewer relationships total so less potential for conflict. As long as the only child can reach agreement with their parents this can be a remarkably conflict free time (not so with siblings often). - Decision making is more straightforward. Again the only will need to work with the parents but especially if they decline to the point of needing decisions made for them and also after the parents pass there is no bickering over anything during those difficult emotional times -- the only can just make the choices unimpeded. - Fewer children and grandchildren mean less likelihood of a dependent adult child or grandchild. This can be a huge difficulty in many families -- how to care for your 80 year old mom when she is currently supporting your 55 year old brother for instance. And also does your 55 year old brother become dependent on you after she passes.[/quote]
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