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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Go to your mother. Your kids will be ok with dad. It sounds like you need your mum. Hugs. [/quote] Also go to your Mom because the 24/7 care and hospice are strangers to her and in her house. I have a different view of eldercare now. Trust no one. Capital Caring Hospice was horrible with my Mom - big business, low level of care, low skills. As is the 24/7 care workers. You need to or someone needs to be there to be her advocate. I'm sorry if this makes you sad, but I hope it makes it clear. Go be with her. Hire someone to oversee her care and BE there - not just at a distance. I trusted my Mom's care to others 4 years ago. I'm still dealing with the trauma of that. If you can't be there, put cameras in every room, most specifically in her room. [/quote]
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