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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP do not be around this woman.  If you must, your dh has to intervene and tell her the topic is OFF LIMITS.  The end.  If she starts talking about it, change the topic or end the visit.

I forced myself to pump and feed far longer than I should have and it took it's toll. It is not normal.  Don't let your dh tell you so - how the heck would he know what normal women and their MILs talk about? From last time he nursed a baby? [/quote]

I wish we had just said from the beginning but saying off limits or we are not discussing her intake would let mil know something was wrong and she would just pile on. She really can't take a hint. The first time she asked we said yep growing like a weed and changed the subject and she made a point to come back and say you didn't answer my question and I want to hear it from larla.

Thankfully they don't live nearby but they are chomping to come visit and I just can't. They also won't respect if you come you can't be here alllllll day. They will want to sit in my living room holding my baby from sun up to sun down. And I just can't handle that right now [/quote]

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