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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, I was not sure where to post this. I am dating this wonderful man and we are taking a trip to NYC at the end of the month to meet his mom and two sisters.

All I know is that they have attended Chapin and Brearly schools and that this is something that women in his family have done for generations.

I feel a bit intimidated. I’ve never met or interacted with women from such circles. I guess I am looking for some insight and guidance, specifically what are these women like? How do they dress and what are their mannerisms? How can I make a good impression in terms of how I present myself, outfit and all? I really do want them to like me. [/quote]

First, snobs are snobs, whether they attended Brearley or BCC for generations, it is what it is. Second, there is no ONE Chapin woman or Brearley. Yes, there are some who are of a particular type, but that’s not each alum. Third, the most important thing is to be yourself and be comfortable with who you are.

So ask the wonderful man more about the weekend - where are you staying, what will you be doing, etc? All to say, you want to be prepared for contingencies - you may eat at home and go out one or two times for dinner and casual wear is fine. Or you may learn that they are dining at the club and you should be ready with the right attire if there is a dress code. Some guys might not realize they should be letting their lady friend know more details about the weekend and how that intersects with what to pack.

Enjoy![/quote]

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