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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Now that my son is in college, I think I'm ready to think about leaving. My husband does not behave this way with our youngest. But I will always worry about his misuse of financial leverage over the kids. He has done that with me during our entire life together. [/quote] How has he “misused financial leverage” against you? I myself am trying to determine where to draw the line between healthy financial discipline as a family and manipulative behavior[/quote] Blackmail. "If you don't do X, I won't give you money for Y". We are on a specific type of visa where I am not allowed to work, so I am dependent on him financially. His kids depend on him for college money. As soon as I get my green card, I can start building my own life and leave. I know that we will need to proceed with caution, because he has a punitive nature, and if I leave, he's the type to decide not to fund their college education as retribution. [/quote]
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