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[quote=Anonymous]Dealing with eldercare is so hard, so I feel for you, OP. And I have a big family. I can't imagine as an only. I will add that while this might not be the case without your aunt and uncle, years ago my DH asked my FIL's girlfriend to help after FIL's surgery since we weren't in town. (I get that this isn't an apples to apples analogy.) While she did it, she laid into my DH after the fact saying how it was presented to her as she had no option but to do it. My DH was totally in the wrong to assume that the longtime gf would be happy to care for FIL. I wonder if there was some miscommunication with your relatives, as in they felt you assumed they would do it. This isn't in anyway throwing shade, because all of this is hard and hugely emotional. Just wanted to throw that out there as food for thought.[/quote]
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