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Reply to "When people say you still have feelings for your exH because you’re angry"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This really frustrates me. My exH makes me angry because he is constantly manipulating the kids and doing things I consider damaging to them due to his own selfishness. Some friends, when I tell them this, say in an almost gleeful tone, “oh it seems like you still have feelings there.” Why is anger about manipulation and abuse construed as feelings. I would be honestly happier if exH were dead, left the kids life insurance money, and I never had to speak to him again. My life is otherwise great - job is fulfilling and I’m in a new relationship. My divorce process is going on over a year due to exH and it’s hell. [/quote] You have a right to grieve and be angry. Whomever is saying that cliche is just saying a cliche. Just ignore that comment. Hopefully they have better listening and responding skills when and if you really need them to. And they clearly never saw ongoing trauma from an abusive Ex. [/quote]
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