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[quote=Anonymous]I live in a very large apartment complex.

I dated a guy who lives in my building for about 2.5 yrs.
It was a very physically abusive relationship & I was granted a permanent restraining order against my ex as he has been bothering me non-stop stalking, harassment, etc.
We have been broken up for about 7 mos. yet he still bothers me.
I have called the police on him but when they go to his apartment to talk to him he pretends he is not home and does not answer his door.

I have provided my property manager w/copies of the restraining order as well as police reports and he had promised me that I could transfer apartment units (different building/same complex) under a DV protection program in my state.
(WAVA)
He offered me a unit about a month ago and I eagerly prepared for a potential move.

Shortly after he offered me the specific apartment, he then changed his mind and told me it would be easier for him to just evict my ex.
He asked me to be patient as he was mandated to give my ex 60-90 days notice to move out.

Problem is, my ex is not moving and the landlord likely will have to get a judge’s order to formally evict.
My ex suspects me of being involved and is purposely watching me and my guests, at all times making me nervous.
He stares at my apartment for a long time thus intimidating me.
He also goes to the mailbox centre when he sees me there as well as the laundry hut when I do my laundry there.

Yet because of the r/o he is “careful” not to speak to me or approach me.

I just want to move into the unit I was originally offered but the manager is insisting it will be easier to just evict my ex.

In the meantime I am in limbo and want the LL to stick with the original plan.
When I call him, he never responds to my voicemails and doesn’t return my calls.
My email messages also are not answered.
Today I went into the leasing office and was told that the manager was out sick but I saw his car in the parking lot.
I feel like he is avoiding me and going back on his initial offer.

What can I do now??
I just want to move on.

Literally as well as figuratively.

Please help me out![/quote]

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