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[quote=Anonymous]Boundaries are the way to go. If you are fully supporting him, then he is living like a child not adult and you can reasonable limits in your own home-home a certain hour, needs to be looking for a job actively, etc. I would get into therapy with him if he just cannot find a job and resents having any limits placed on him. What mental health issue does he have that he cannot even work part time? How much money are you giving him? You are already providing free room, board and food. Are you also paying for his nightlife or are his dates. If his dates are paying every time I might wonder if he feels the need to repay in other ways. None would be your business if he were independent, but he is not.[/quote]
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