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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP. She wants to pretend he won't remarry and that your relationship with him is better than it actually is. It would be a kindness to try and let this go, but as a fellow stepchild I understand that this is very, very hard. [b]If he does care for her in her old age, maybe this is a good deal for you. My dad's wife is 15 years younger and has seen him through a lot of medical stuff. It seems fair for her to inherit since she did a very good job and if it weren't for her, I would have had to do it.[/b][/quote] This is key, OP. You know how bl00dy expensive eldercare is? If your stepdad takes good care of your mother, and then uses the money for his own care, you won't need to disburse a penny. You can save it all for your own care. Please bear this mind, and... act accordingly. No running off to spoon-feed her at the drop of a hat.[/quote]
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