Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Tweens and Teens
Reply to "DC siding with abuser"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My dad was verbally abusive to all of us, and physically abusive to us kids, never our mom. My mom was the queen of being passive-aggressive, loved to play victim and a huge martyr, and it was annoying AF and sometimes I really DID side with my dad's verbal abuse because she frustrated the hell out of me too, and I kind of felt like she deserved it. [/quote] I could have written this. I was mad at my mom for how she acted towards me, mad at how she acted towards my dad in ways that often made him angry (I did not agree with how he acted when he was angry but I understood why he was angry), mad at her for not leaving him so my siblings and I had to deal with the dysfunction. I was mad at my dad too, but for different reasons and was less able to show it because he was more likely to hit me or chase me out of the house. They are still together. It's better but not good. I see them rarely and always with a plan to leave if needed. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics