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[quote=Anonymous]My dad remarried and she will get it all (several million). The reality is he is a terrible dad so no surprise. The one bonus is I don’t have to take care of him at all since she is around. I guess it is “worth it”, but the reality is that my dead mom is a huge reason my dad has all this money and she would be horrified. But, she did nothing to prevent it. My husband and I have everything set up in a trust. Now, the reality is my husband will control the trust if I die before him. But our lawyer recommended a provision that either of us must get a prenup to keep access to the trust. It doesn’t dictate the terms of the prenup, but our lawyer said that requiring the discussion is super helpful. It means my husband or I cannot just avoid discussing how assets will be handled in a new marriage. [/quote]
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