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[quote=Anonymous]My ex broke up with me last after 5 years. She immediately went NC and blocked me. 4 days post breakup (the 8th), she called me randomly and I heard panic in her voice saying her mom was missing and then I could hear her tearing up. I told her I’m sure her mom was fine, she told me they found her car with her purse in it, but her mom wasn’t there, her keys and phone were gone, and her phone was dead.

She called me hours later screaming in tears that she was dead. She and her mom best friends and they were two peas in a pod, so I knew she was beyond devastated. I called her best friend because I was worried about my ex and what I could do. I cried myself to be honest - her mom texted me/us after we broke up because she wanted us back together. My mom reached out to my ex and we sent her flowers. I drove a couple of hours to see her after the service last week to give me condolences. We hugged really hard for a while we she cried. I told her to let me know how if she wanted to talk and I kissed the back of her hand and told her that I loved her. She texted me to make sure I got home safely. She texted the next day thanking me for driving down, how it meant a lot to her and her dad, and ended with the text with “love you”. I said love you too.

My thing is, do I still periodically text to check in, like every few weeks or just don’t say anything to her again? What would you do?[/quote]

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