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[quote=Anonymous]Could any of it be the result of learning disabilities, difficulty with executive functioning or just not understanding the material? Maybe she's socializing so much because she doesn't want to face those other difficulties. Middle school can be a huge transition for some kids. More classes, more homework, changing classes each period, using lockers.

I'd start with getting her input on what worked and what didn't last year. What was hard for her? Why? What does she think needs to change? Then help her get set up for success. Help her get organized with school supplies, tabbed binders, maybe introduce using a planner to track assignments and tests. Help her set up a designated study area that fits her study style but is free of distractions. For the first few weeks or so, sit down with her every day after school to go over what homework she has to do, what projects have been assigned, etc. For longer projects or assignments, break it down into parts and map out a plan for when she's going to do each part. Time management can be hard for middle schoolers, especially those who play sports/ECs and have time commitments outside of school. Help her get and stay organized so that she can ultimately manage it all on her own.

As for completing homework, that's going to depend in part on what she has to do after school. My DS plays a sport, so he has to get as much homework done at school during study hall as possible. Then he has to do it right when he gets home because it'll be too late to start it after practice. if no practice or after-school activity, the homework gets done right after an after-school snack.

As part of being organized and time management, build in "free time" for her to do whatever she'd like within reason, and if there is time, once homework is done. If she wants to spend that half hour or whatever texting with friends, fine. Or find out how she'd like to handle that. Give her some input and ownership in this process.

I'd also have a talk with her about expectations, and how this is her job and the choices she makes now will ensure she has choices down the road. It's great to have friends and be social--and that's part of being in middle school--but first and foremost, she's there to get an education. [/quote]

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