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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He probably already knows. [/quote]

OP: I doubt it based on what I can gather. Even still, I’m happy to help him confirm if he is suspicious.[/quote]

NP. Be sure, OP, to get tested for STIs right away, for the sake of your health and your future after you end things with your fool husband. You cannot know who else your DH has screwed or whether this AP brought infections to the affair. I get that you're relishing the upcoming vengeance right now (and I do not blame you one bit) but please take a pause to do the pragmatic thing and get an STI test. You'll want another one, in however many months the doctor recommends, because two tests are a way to catch anything which is slow to show up. STIs are rocketing up at this time and no one should assume they're immune, or that their AP hasn't given them anything.

Meanwhile, gather all the financial and business information you need to be prepared so you can drop the bomb on the AP and your DH, and ask for a divorce the same day. I'd wait until I had consulted an attorney and gotten all the financial ducks in a row. Be sure DH can't clear out any joint accounts suddenly when you tell him what you know. And I'd never have sex with DH again, of course, even while hiding the fact I knew about his AP. I'd be oh so conveniently having "a woman problem down there" to avoid sex. [/quote]

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