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[quote=Anonymous]HHI (gross) is $160K.  Bills include mortgage, credit cards (run up thanks to repairs to our old piece of shit house we shouldn't have bought in the first damned place), aftercare at school for one child, car payment, student loans, insurance, cable, utilities, phone, food, gas, personal debt owed to parents (again b/c of said piece of shit old house).  We contribute to our 401K's so we don't have to rely on the kid or the government in the future but we have no savings.  We bought a house that would sell for 1/3 of what we paid for it in our hometown.  We have no family here.  We don't work in the government, which makes it more ludicrous that we are here in the first damned place.  Kid now has issues that are requiring us to work with specialists that don't accept insurance and take a shit ton of time off work to shuttle kid back and forth between all of the above.  We pulled kid from daycare and put him in free charter for PS b/c we want to give kid a sibling but can't afford a mortgage and two daycare payments.  Now one of said specialists is saying there are too many kids in his classroom causing too much stimulation and contributing to problems.  WTF is our choice?  Put kid back in daycare and put off having kid #2 for two more years?  (We are in our mid to late 30's, so the clock is ticking).  Get a nanny we can't afford?  Live on one income (can't afford)?  Move (thereby delaying kid #2 anyway while my eggs and DH's sperm become even more fucking geriatric)?

Seriously, what the fuck are we doing wrong?  How is it possible to be in the top 10% of all households in the US and still feel as though you are barely keeping your head above water and every day is one big stressor after another?  I just give up.  Seriously.  I want to crawl into my bed and cry every day.  I won't, because my kid deserves better, but holy fucking hell.  [/quote]

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