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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.

He hates working. He says we have all been brainwashed to be working on spreadsheets all day. He is free and is not doing that!

He launched a consulting business a few years ago. He doesn’t do active business development or networking. He just sits in his room playing video games and doing online RPGs meanwhile he has brought in 30k this year and 100k last year.

I’m so tired of him and his relaxed schedule. He goes to sleep at 3 am and wakes up at 11 am. He takes a nap at 3 pm. He becomes indignant when I ask him to get a job and says he already has a job and I’m abusing him.

He has no savings. No plans. No retirement. He doesn’t even have money to support a baby.

Meanwhile I’m paying for his health instance and preparing for IVf transfer. I make 110k.  I’m so stressed. How will we make this work as he refuses to do anything to increase his income or work. [/quote]

Why would you possibly be thinking about having a baby in this situation OP?

Honestly, if you have a baby in these circumstances, YOU are the only person to blame. Your DH may be lazy and not make much money, but it doesn't sound like his chosen lifestyle needs a lot of money.  I mean, people can live a simple happy life off $100k and there's nothing wrong with that.

But if you bring a kid into this, and that kid needs a lot more money than $100k AND it needs two active involved parents. You already know your family can't provide that to your kid. So in that case, it's all on you.  [/quote]

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