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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you bring it up if your AC is dating someone who is very high maintenance, spends lavishly on grooming, dressing, traveling, partying, cars etc while earning low and having existing large student loans and ever growing credit card debt? Is it inappropriate to voice concern knowing well how financial hardships can ruin marriages or wiser to hope they'll figure it out on their own? [/quote] With my adult kids, I definitely mention stuff like this. I say what I have to say about it, as politely but honestly as possible, and then I leave the issue alone. I give my opinion or advice, and then I leave them alone to make their decision. I don't want to be a nag or an overbearing parent. They're adults. They have to make their own choices about their lives. [/quote]
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