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[quote=Anonymous]An earlier poster wondered about condom use. I have another question for all you over 50s people. If you're relatively new to dating after a divorce or a celibate period, how are you navigating sex again?

I'm divorced, and have not had sex with anyone in six years! Last few years of marriage involved no sex, then it took a few years for me to feel ready again, and finally there's a man with whom I actually want to become intimate. But I have to admit, I'm scared to death. Not of STDs, just of having sex in this 55-year-old body. I'm  told I'm attractive, I'm slim and I know I look young "for my age" (meaning I probably look mid 40s), but I have lumps and bumps and scars and wrinkles and stretch marks and mild stress incontinence from having three babies, and some things are not as tight as they used to be. Last time I was dating, women shaved their legs but not their public hair: that was still considered a weird porno thing. Ditto anything involving the back door. (Not trying to be prudish by using the euphemism, just don't want my post to be rejected by whatever bot doesn't like sex words.)

Any advice, from either other women or men? [/quote]

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