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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You say you don't want to forego condom use. So don't. Most men will still happily date or have sex with you and if they won't, oh well, let them move on because I can tell you they for sure have herpes or HPV.

Get the HPV vaccine if you have not yet. Your doctor can prescribe it for you even tho you are over the age limit which is 45.

I am 48 and still use condoms, both for birth control and STDprotection.

And do NOT trust some dude saying he has been tested. He needs to stop having sex with anyone else for a couple months (because it can take a while for the infections to show up on tests), then get tested and show you the results.[/quote]

There is no reliable test for men for HPV so you won't know anything for sure. Life is full of risks, this is one of them.[/quote]

True, but that's one reason why I still use condoms even after seeing his STD results. And why I got the HPV vaccine. I'm not going to get cancer or PID just to make some guy happy. I can have sex and mitigate risks. It's worked so far. I always test negative for STDs including HPV. I had sex without a condom with my ex husband and I will do so again if I get re-married. But dating? Nope.[/quote]

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