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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have three children who are going into grades 5, 7, and 9 this year -- so a combination of elementary, middle, and high school. Our age gap is 10 years. He gets the same pension wherever he lives.[/quote]Well, you are not moving this fall, and your oldest will be in high school. It’s hard on kids to move voluntarily once they are in high school. Sometimes, it is what has to happen, but not in this case. Then, you really shouldn’t move until the youngest graduates. So, that is 7 years. I like the idea of spending summers there and then moving once youngest is done with high school. How are the grandparents aging, is there any additional pull to move back to help them? What about *your* pension. How much better will it be if you teach here 7 more years? Do either of you have healthcare insurance options in your pensions or are you planning on the ACA marketplace? [/quote]
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