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[quote=Anonymous]I gave up on my relationship with my sister after a lifetime of drama. Half a year ago she came to my home and knocked on the door. We began communicating again. A month in, she attempted to draw me into a conversation. In retrospect she laid a trap. I fell for it, and she let loose with a torrent of verbal abuse. She insulted me, insulted my young adult DC, and shredded us. After not dealing with her for the better part of a decade, it was deeply shocking to witness this horrific behavior.

I will tell you how it goes: You don't like getting treated badly. You repeatedly try to reset the relationship, to no avail. You have no idea how to walk away from the relationship (imagine trying to end a relationship with a blood relative). Finally you have enough, and you end the relationship. You have PTSD and you don't top ruminating over the relationship right away. Eventually the trauma fades, and you move on. Even the memory of the abuse fades. If you get exposed to similar abuse years later, you're shocked and puzzled why someone is attacking you like this.

Go for it, OP. He will never change. You can do it. You will not regret leaving him.[/quote]

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