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[quote=Anonymous]I am 28 years old and I've been on several dates with a 57 year old man

He is a senior manager at a large company & he used to work as a lobbyist. I find him really interesting and funny, but he is also extremely tall, handsome, and in shape too. I only met while working as a temp.

There are numerous red flags though. He has already been married twice before. I googled him online and found him linked to seven different women at various points in his life. And these are just the women he shared an address with at some point, so who knows if he dated even more.

I grew up in very sheltered environments and attended private Christian schools, so I don't have much relationship experience. I don't drink and I spend most of my time alone. So I kind of find the idea of an older, supportive partner attractive.  I almost feel like he likes these parts of my personality though. I am a quiet person and most people find me boring to be around. I have terrible social skills and struggle to connect with people my own age

My own parents have a 23 year age gap. They are still married, but my mother never worked, my dad was out of the country most of the year, and my parents slept in separate bedrooms. My dad financially supports me and I live off a trust fund, so I technically never really have to work. It gets extremely boring and lonely doing nothing though. Especially since I have no real friends and I don't drink alcohol or go out with people my own age

I know a girl who is 26 and dating a guy 11 years older than her. But most people I know only have 2-3 year age gaps [/quote]

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