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[quote=Anonymous]First off, I recognize that I sound crazy.

We see a specialist doctor for my DS and have been seeing him for 5 years (since DS was 1 year old). We see him every few months or sometimes every month when DS is having issues.

I am so embarrassed that I have developed these feelings. This doctor is in his 60s and a MASSIVE nerd and not even especially charismatic or conventionally attractive. I am in my 30s.

We have never had any kind of interaction that was flirty. Well, ok I take that back. I do sometimes think there’s a little bit of a vibe between us. But it’s not flirting. It’s more that I think he likes my family and our case is interesting for him. He does sometimes go above and beyond for us, but I don’t know if we are getting special treatment or if he treats all his patients this way.

You guys, I am having deeply inappropriate dreams and fantasies about this doctor every day for months now. It’s so bad I’ve made my DH go to the last several appointments without me because I’m afraid the doctor will be able to tell. It’s become an obsession. Like he’s on my mind constantly. So many fantasies and scenarios every single day. This has never happened to me before. Like crushing so hard on someone where it is NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN EVER.

I assume this must be normal on some level, right? Has anyone else had this happen to them? I’ve heard of it happening to people with their therapists before but maybe not to this degree.[/quote]

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