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[quote=Anonymous]I am dating again post-divorce and met someone I really like and likes me back. After a few months, I learned that his job has intense travel seasons a few times a year. Think 4 days a week every week for a couple months at a time. I am very independent and have a full social and work life so I can keep busy. My problem is that when he’s away, it’s out of sight out of mind. I go into hyper independent mode and don’t want to talk on the phone or chat. It’s as if I don’t have a boyfriend at all. I find chatting to be a reminder that I’m missing someone, but that person can do nothing to help with my daily stress, so why bother stirring up my emotions? In a way I feel resentful, like he’s the one who is traveling, so if he misses me, that’s his problem. That sounds so messed up! What’s going on? How do I resolve this?[/quote]
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