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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would consider concealed carry if I were you.[/quote] [i][weird asterisks below in words are because the site claimed this was an "explicit" post and rejected it at first. I cannot figure what's "explicit" about the word "sh**t" or maybe it was g*n...)[/i] NO. Introducing a g*n into the equation could end up with his wresting it away and using it on her. Unless she is already trained and experienced handling it, and she is able physically to ward him off if he tries to take it. Even then, in the right (or wrong) circumstances, he could still get it away from her, then--God knows what. Or he gets violent and she does use it on him. Guess who goes to jail then, even if she did it in self defense? Can she afford a great attorney to keep her out of prison? Can she feel assured the police would never, ever believe the ex over her? What if she s****s him in front of the kids? Will you, PP, be there to provide child care 24/7 while she's in a cell? Because even if it's clear self-defense, they're gonna jail her for at least a short time while they figure it out. Or he finds out she has a g*n so he gets one too because he's nuts and vindictive. She will have no way to know if he keeps it unloaded and correctly stored in his home when the kids are there. Or he finds out she has a g*n and he decides to use that fact to claim she's unfit or whatever, and he pursues more custody. Do NOT put it past men like this to use anything they can to punish their ex-wives, even if the wives' action is perfectly legal where the live. like concealed carry. [/quote]
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