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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom is 77 and in an assisted living due to vascular dementia. I’m POA and her only child. When I read the posts about people loving and mourning their 94 year old parents, I can’t believe how lucky you all have been at life.

[b]My mom has always been selfish, difficult, and mean. She’s always put herself first and never cared much about me or my feelings. She is entirely the same person with dementia. I do a lot of work for her and take good care of her. Even with her limited mental capab[/b]ilities, she is still able to text me snarky things like “don’t you care about me?” And “you never called me today I’m going to bed”.

Our whole relationship is duty. I love her out of obligation. In my most private prayers, I pray she dies soon and quickly so that her miserable (no health issues, just a miserable person) life is over and I can move on in my own life without this caretaking.

I hope that gives some comfort to those who know the true love of an aging parent. [/quote]

I'm sorry about this but my mother is 94 and the same.  You may have many years of this ahead of you[/quote]

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