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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get so tired of the relentless divorce shaming on this site. For some people divorce is required, even when there are kids. As someone who's ex literally tried to kill me in front of my kid, I grateful to be divorced. There is no way it didn't upgrade both me and my kids life to not have to live like that. I know a lot of people always try to add, divorce is ok in instances of abuse. But it often comes off as an afterthought and trivializes the frequency with which people encounter abuse in their marriages. We need to be able to have productive convos about how to navigate relationships and child rearing in the event of a very much so needed divorce. If we had half as much shaming for abusers as we do for divorcees, kids would be better off.[/quote]

Hey they are just jealous. Some of them wish they could get out but they are so entangled financially or addicted to the lifestyle 2 high income brought them or scared sh***t etc. some of these people then hide behind their kids and claim "I (or we) are staying for the kids". These are also the same people quick to say children of divorced parents are literally f**ed. Do not pay attention to them. Secretly even though they are probably so dependent on the other spouse or the assets of the marriage they envy you.

I am happily married with 3 kids aged 5, 10 and 13. If any of the stories I read here were to happen to us believe me we will go our separate ways and be the best co-parent we can be. Children need whoever they are with at that moment to care for them and love them..It could be mom on a Monday, dad on Tuesday etc.

We have a friend whose child is really good with swimming. His mother even though she has time to attend his meets never goes, the dad goes all the time. She has no qualms saying she is going out with her gfs that day or she has a beauty appointment you name it. So the dad told Ian last week that the 15 years old son asked him why he was still married to his mother and that they should just divorce because whoever she is around if she is not yelling and screaming she is busy texting calling talking to her friends etc.

Those who are in the so called nuclear families are not always better off.[/quote]

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