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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You liked the attention. 
You liked the adrenaline/hormone zing.
You entertained thoughts of a different life.
Person maybe was younger.
It showed what feels missing in daily life.

Did that. Been there. Person had Twitter account removed. Still look for "him" sometimes, 5 years later.
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Well that’s not reassuring.

Funny enough he wasn’t younger and he honestly was not better than my husband — back living with his parents in mid 40s. He didn’t seem like he had many friends. Lots of jilted past romances. But I am / was for sure idealizing it and for sure there was an adrenaline / hormone zing and I had a longing for that, which made me realize I needed to stop and wasn’t getting something I need in my real life. Trying to work on that!

But what you sad about “looking for him” —this is what I am afraid of, that I will still think about it or somehow try and find/google. Ugh, that thought makes me repulsed. Because it’s not this random dude I had a convo with online for a couple days, it’s the idea that someone out there is interested in me.  I think I just have to keep telling myself this person’s ultimate intentions were likely seedy and make connections with people in my real life.

Look at that! I reassured myself!![/quote]

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