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[quote=Anonymous]A few days ago I posted a relationship issue on a different online forum and a man DM’ed me with some advice. We struck up a convo and ended up chatting, finding out we had things in common. I am generally a very friendly person but had never done this before (too old for that type of thing on social media, got married before apps/online dating was ubiquitous). It got a little flirty, but the banter was kinda fun. No pictures or identifying info shared. We talked in a round about way about sex, but only in relation to what I was seeking advice on. I found myself really liking the chatting and doing it too much, constantly hoping he would reply. This obviously altered me that it was not healthy and more than making a random internet friend. I said goodbye, deleted the account and I told my husband (who wasn’t mad but agreed it would obviously be best if I stopped.)

This whole thing was like 2.5 days.

I just have been feeling awful about the whole  thing and afraid I did some sort of damage. I really enjoyed the banter with this random person and sad this it’s over, but it just feels like I was crossing a line. (It seemed clear at the end he wished I was single, but the whole point of my post was to get advice to help me with my marriage).

I need some reassurance that I didn’t make things worse and advice on how to stop feeling so sad/bad about the whole thing. [/quote]

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