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[quote=Anonymous]I think people on DCUM expect therapists to be Sherlock Holmes level investigators who can deduce from regular conversations that their husbands are cheating and have no intention to stop. How can a therapist do that? The therapist is there to help you talk through problems, not solve them FOR you. There is an expectation of good faith that both parties are there to do the work to save the marriage. Of course everyone including the therapist knows that this is often not the case but it is not the therapist’s job to read your husband’s mind and figure this out. Life is not TV. As for OP’s question, same: you have to do the work. Both parties.[/quote]
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